Marriage Landmines You Must Avoid: Your Marriage First Aid Tools is a product of over thirty four years in marriage counseling and more than thirty one years of marrying the same lady. This is your indispensible marriage, “First Aid Tool Kit” to safeguard your marriage from bleeding,and provide the appropriate bandage before a train wreck occurs. Don’t kill your marriage with negative perceptions and unattainable expectations. Marriage is an institution that requires constant renovations and fresh decor. What you put into it determines your outcome. In all reality and candidness, the Lord holds the ultimate solutions to the myriad of marital challenges that we face in this dynamic culture of ours. God’s word is powerful to destroy any impediment in our marriage relationships. If employed diligently and prayerfully by faith with action, solutions to our marriage problems are inevitable. It shall be well with your marriage.